I saw this question and it made me think…"What's more important: looking trendy or enjoying what you wear?"
It’s a simple question, but it made me pause because every time a new trend pops up, there’s that little voice saying, Maybe I should try this? But then comes the reality check: Will I actually love wearing this, or will it just sit in my closet?
We’ve all been there scrolling through social media, spotting influencers rocking the latest “must-have” fashion item, and feeling the pull to add it to our wardrobe. But how often do those impulse buys turn into forever pieces? More often than not, they’re worn a handful of times before we move on to the next trend, leaving our closets (and our wallets) feeling empty despite being full of clothes.
The truth is, fashion is deeply personal.. Style is more than just staying on trend. It’s about wearing pieces that bring you joy, that tell a story, and that you’ll love for years to come. So, what’s more important; looking trendy or truly enjoying what you wear? Let’s talk about it.
The Trend Trap: Why Fast Fashion Leaves Us Wanting More
Trends are exciting, no doubt. They give us something new to explore and experiment with, allowing us to step out of our comfort zones. But here’s the thing, trends also move quickly, and keeping up can feel like a never-ending race.
How many times have you bought a trendy piece, worn it once or twice, and then forgotten about it? Or worse, realized it didn’t even feel like you? That’s the cycle of fast fashion: constant newness, but little satisfaction.
Beyond personal frustration, the bigger issue is the impact fast fashion has on the environment. The industry produces massive amounts of waste, consumes valuable resources, and often relies on unethical labor practices to keep prices low and production fast. And yet, brands keep pushing new collections, making us feel like our wardrobes are outdated almost as soon as we buy something.
At Besida, we reject this cycle. We don’t create disposable fashion. Instead, we design clothing that lasts, not just in durability but in style. Our pieces are made to be worn and loved for years, inspired by cultural heritage, thoughtful craftsmanship, and timeless beauty.
Dressing for Yourself
Think about the outfits you wear on repeat. The ones that make you feel effortlessly you. Maybe it’s a well-made dress that fits just right, a bold print that boosts your confidence, or a soft fabric that feels like home against your skin.
That’s what fashion should be, an expression of who you are, not just what’s trending.
There’s a quiet power in dressing for yourself. When you choose clothing that resonates with you, you’re not just picking an outfit; you’re embracing a mindset. You stop feeling pressured to constantly buy new things because you love what you already have. You invest in quality over quantity, choosing pieces that will stay with you for years instead of fading with the latest fad.
Our Besida community often tells us how much they cherish their pieces. They wear them for special occasions, casual outings, and even just because they love how they feel in them. And that’s exactly how it should be. Your wardrobe should be a reflection of your unique style, your values, and the moments that make life special.
So, the next time you’re tempted to buy something just because it’s trending, pause and ask yourself:
✨ Do I truly love this piece?
✨ Will I still enjoy wearing it next year?
✨ Does it feel like me?
If the answer is yes, then go for it! And if not, there’s no rush. The best outfits aren’t the ones that follow trends, they’re the ones that bring you joy.
At Besida, we’re here to help you build a wardrobe that lasts. One that reflects your style, your values, and most importantly, your joy.
Because fashion should feel good, in every way.
Let’s Talk!
What’s your take, do you dress for trends or for yourself? Have you found pieces in your wardrobe that you genuinely love wearing? Drop a comment and let’s chat!